UNDERSTANDING BORDERLINE PERSONALITY DISORDER
Living with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) can be a draining and confusing disease to understand, often described by clinicians and patients as living with “third-degree emotional burns.” While the world sees an angry and manipulative person, the individual is experiencing profound confusion and frustration at not being understood or feeling safe in the emotional environment around them.
What is BPD?
At its core, BPD is a mental health condition characterized by significant difficulty regulating emotion. This “emotional dysregulation” impacts how a person feels about themselves, how they relate to others, and how they behave in the face of stress.
Clinically, BPD is categorized by nine diagnostic criteria. Generally, a diagnosis requires meeting at least five of the following:
- Fear of Abandonment: Frantic efforts to avoid real or imagined separation.
- Unstable Relationships: A pattern of “splitting” (viewing people as all good or all bad).
- Identity Disturbance: A shifting or unstable sense of self.
- Impulsivity: Engaging in risky behaviors (spending, substance use, reckless driving).
- Self-Harm or Suicidality: Recurrent threats or behaviors.
- Affective Instability: Intense “mood swings” that last hours rather than days.
- Chronic Emptiness: A persistent feeling of being “hollow.”
- Inappropriate Anger: Difficulty controlling temper or frequent displays of rage.
- Paranoia or Dissociation: Stress-related feelings of being “checked out” or suspicious.
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